You have a tendency to rush into things heart-first, with your imagination running wild alongside you.
You dont do casual anything.
If youre dating someone, its because you see a future with them.

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If youre working somewhere, its because you want to advance in the position.
You dont commit to anything halfway.
Once you make a serious commitment to something or someone, you prioritize them aboveeverythingelse in your life.

And that last thing you want is for someone to take advantage of that tendency.
ISTP and ESTP: Because you know firsthand how selfish people can be.
You dont have rose-colored glasses on.
Youre distrustful of others because youre realistic about others, in a way that many other people are not.
You know that its human nature to be selfish, so youre careful to protect your own heart.
ESFJ and ISFJ: Because youre used to giving more than you get back.
Youre a giver by nature, and supporting those around you comes as naturally to you as breathing.
Unfortunately, others arent always quite as openhearted as you are.
So you do the exact same, by never trusting anyone else above yourself.
ESFP and ISFP: Because youre easily affected by relationships and are scared of getting hurt again.
It sounds a little dramatic, but its true.