Some people will act like your behavior is unacceptable because your strong feelings are making them uncomfortable.
Remember, texting first and asking to hang out on weekends isnt clingy.
Its average behavior when youre talking to someone youre interested in dating.
Kirill Pershin
The right person will appreciate the effort you put into loving them.
The right person will want to set plans with you and hear compliments from you.
Theyll get excited whenever your name pops onto their phone.
Theyll be thrilled to know that youve been thinking about them and want to see them again soon.
The right person will mirror yourclingybehavior because their feelings are just as strong as your own.
Theyll make it obvious they like you and will be appreciative of how honest youve been as well.
You shouldnt change yourself to just potential partners.
Everyone shows their love in different ways.
Hold out for the person who will give you everything you need without making you feel like a burden.
Being forward with your emotions will push the wrong people away.
You dont want to waste your time and your energy on the wrong person.
You weeded out the wrong people before you got too attached.
If the worst thing that being honest does is push the incompatible people away, youre doing something right.
Youre only clingy because you care.
If you didnt care, you wouldnt be trying so hard.
You wouldnt be so excited to talk to this other person and to see them in person again.
You would be completely fine waiting days, weeks, or even months to cross paths again.
The fact that youre impatient to text them or make plans with them is a positive sign.
Dont waste your time with anyone who sees it as a negative.
If youre not excited about this person, then theyre probably not the right one.
Clingy behavior is pretty normal behavior in serious relationships.
But once youre in a committed relationship, those things become normal.
You might not be the best at first dates, but youll be amazing in long-term relationships.
