We are also divided by the personality code.
They are very nostalgic and live for their memories.
The tighter they hold onto the past, the harder it is to let go.
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ENFPs are known to romanticize everything.
Their rose-coloured glasses can often confuse fact from fiction.
ENFPs are deep thinkers and immensely understanding.
Although those are two great qualities, they can easily get manipulated.
ENFPs are always trying to rationalize everything.
ENFPs are undyingly hopeful, which is why their ex is always allowed back in.
ENFPs I know you want it to be different this time, but trust me it wont be.
Give up on the past fantasy of us and chase a new dream boy.
ESFPs are the Explorer bang out which also makes them the escapist bang out.
You are always on the search for your next adventure.
You say yes to everything before actually checking your schedule.
You tend to overbook yourself.
For lack of a better word, you’re free to sometimes be a flop.
You have this amazing/annoying way of making everyone feel special.
You get us all excited about something, then you cancel and let us down.
I get it.. you didnt mean it.
Stay single until you’ve got the option to stop making excuses.
You are very selective with your company.
You prefer to keep your nose stuck in a book, rather than being the life of the party.
You are a wallflower by choice… but you seriously could be a catch!
Instead of spending countless hours researching, start living!
Stay single until you start reading more feelings and less facts.
INTPs hate making the first move.
They have many ideas about how to approach you, but they usually chicken out.
Stop analyzing and start doing.
INTPs tend to hint or give their partner clues, that they are into them.
INTPs are not known to be risk-takers.
They would rather you figure it out that they like you, rather than just telling you.
The heavy hinting is their way to protect themselves from rejection.
Stay single until you are ready to admit your feelings and stop hiding!
ESFJs highly value their social circle more than any other personality key in.
We will always try….but our social validation is not our worth.
ESFJs are looking for the girl next door and the white picket fence that comes with her.
ESFJ stay single until you’re free to put someone above your social validation!
Do not lose that!
You are a people pleaser which is cute.
You want peace over conflict, which is normal for a Diplomat.
Yet you tend to let your partner get away with bloody murder.
I know you hate this….but you need confrontation.
I know it is a scary word, but truth of the matter is it is the only way.
Those problems you hide only get bigger, the longer you keep them hidden.
You have to remember everyone is just human.
We are not mind readers.
We can not know if we are hurting you, if you do not tell us.
It sounds simple, but it is the little things that matter.
Do not let small things snowball.
A lot of its fine will eventually turn into good bye.
If you confront the problem head on you might minimize it sooner rather than later.
Little problems turn into deal breakers when they are not resolved in a timely fashion.
ENFJs stay single until you could face your fear of confrontation.
You deserve more than to be a doormat.
You are worth more than that, know that.
While you are the fools rush in bang out, not everyone can be as daring as you.
ESTPs are confident and can dive right in emotionally and physically pretty quickly.
ESTPs can be a tad confusing.
They are known to send mixed signals.
Ironically ESTPs are the most straight up, out of any other personality types.
Not everyone is as secure and confident as you ESTP.
ESTP stay single until you’re free to find someone that is cool with your situation.
We both know you wont change for anyone ESTP!
You are so motivated, naturally you want your partner to be motivated too.
ENTJs tend to make anything into a project.
They love to train people.
You find personal satisfaction in helping someone else succeed.
At the same time you are also disappointed….if they fail.
ENTJs like to mould someone into their perfect partner.
This is a dominant personality bang out and they like to take control.
Your partner can become afraid of you, if they are scared to disappoint you.
Contrary to Machiavellis belief it is NOT better to be feared than loved.
ENTJs we know you demand respect, but earn love do not force it.
ENTJs are known for their brutal honesty.
ENTJs stay single until you know the difference between constructive criticism and plain old mean.
ISFJ Break Down Your Walls Sentinel
ISFJs are natural caregivers.
ISFJs are not one to trust easily.
They proceed with caution and slowly.
ISFJs take dating seriously, which is great.
Yet sometimes you have to try a couple of flavours before you pick out your favourite ice cream.
Life is about experiences.
There is no questioning that.
Everything is trial and error.
You have to fall, to fall in love.
Sometimes it’s crucial that you break down, so someone can make you whole.
ISFJs are always the ones keeping it together for everyone else.
They need to learn to let someone else pick up the pieces for once.
ISFJs can become committed quickly…sometimes they settle too quickly.
ISFJs stay single, because there is more out there than you know!
Give more people a chance, before settling down so soon!
There are many fish in the sea, get to know a few of them before mating for life.
INFPs need to stop comparing their partners to a fantasy.
No one can live up to someone who is not real.
INFPs can be perfectionists.
They are extremely picky not just with a partner, but with everything.
They see quality over quantity.
INFPs live their life for value.
INFPs dont settle and they should not…but they could learn how to compromise.
INFPs should stay single, until they learn to make a little wiggle room.
In true explorer nature ISFP lives for the moments.
All this premature planning can leave an ISFP running.
An ISFP needs to fall in love naturally.
ISFP can struggle with structure, which can make serious relationships difficult.
ISFP can be difficult to read.
While they love experiencing everything they are still an introvert.
ISFPs are still quite guarded.
They prefer to listen over talk.
Sometimes it can feel like pulling teeth to ask them what they really want.
Not only are ISFPs a natural quiet introvert, but they are also an unorganized Explorer.
This combination is a deathly bang out for making plans.
ENTP- Throw Away The Schedule Analyst
ENTPs are big on self-improvement, which is awesome!
Analyst types can be so focused on projects, they can neglect to see the bigger picture.
They tend to focus more on planning rather than actually living.
ENTPs like to push their partners to greatness, but sometimes this encouragement can be confused as pressure.
We love that you have planned our whole Euro trip 4 months in advance.
However it might be cool, sometimes to just see where the wind takes us?
ENTPs can focus too greatly on being factually correct, they can overlook their partners emotional response.
You may be right ENTP, but can you take a second to understand our point of view too?
We love your thrive, this is one of the reasons we fell for you in the first place.
Yet not everyone runs on the same speed.
Give us a second to catch up, give us a second to breathe.
ISTJ- Throw Caution To The Wind- Sentinel
ISTJ you are the most devoted of the bunch.
When you commit you are instant wifey material.
However… you are only young once.
Spread your wings a bit and become a social butterfly.
Take the time to date, before just settling down with the wrong partner.
You are such an amazing support system, just choose to pick up the right people.
ISTJ is a T for thinker over F for feeler.
Yes ISTJs are great communicators, but that is when their partner is vocal about their feelings.
ISTJs are not the best at picking up emotional cues.
If you want an answer with an ISTJ, you gotta be straight with them.
Beating around the bush, will just create a tangled web.
ISTJs are very traditional and value family.
They are known to be trustworthy partners.
ISTJs you are steady, but stay single if you want to stay boring.
ISTJs need to learn how to step out of their comfort zones a bit.
hey never stop cooking for us, we take all of this back.
INFJ I Dont Want Easy, I Want Crazy Diplomat
INFJs are a picky bunch!
F for feeling over T for thinking.
INFJs value emotions over logic with love.
While all the facts may not add up if INFJ has a feeling about you, youre in.
They value that just know feeling over anything else.
You could be thousands of miles apart, but if you are it they will just know.
INFJs crave that connection more than any other personality pop in.
That in love high feeling is the most important aspect of their relationship.
At the same time INFJ can be a tad too picky!
They may write you off too soon if they do not immediately feel something with you.
Connections can take time INFJ.
Do not jump to say no, if it isnt love at first sight.
Sometimes the best loves can slowly grow from friendships.
It does not always need to be an epic romance, for it to be romantic.
INFJs stay single until you’ve got the option to be patient with forming a proper connection.
Not everything happens right away.
Just because it isnt electricity at first, does not mean it can not turn into fire.
ISTPs can be very unemotional at times.
It is quite easy for them to emotional check out, but be physical intimate.
Beware these are the bad boys your mother warned you about.
ISTPs are poor communicators.
ISTPs will also not tell you how they are actually feeling, they will just assume you know.
Because we are all psychic?
ISTPs do have feelings, I know they do.
You are not a robot, I promise.
It is just your feelings are so tightly guarded.
No one can breakthrough that great wall of insecurity.
Especially anyone who is actively trying…that most likely will push an ISTP further away.
ISTP believe in moment by moment living.
It must be a natural progression, that is the only way a successful relationship will work with them.
ISTP stay single, until you’re able to emotionally communicate with something more than just sex.
INTJ- Stop Being So Calculated Analyst
Again the T for thinking over F for feeling problems arise.
However….your social skills could use some work!
Not everyone is going to vocalize how they feel about you.
There is something about the unsaid in body language.
You just feel it, you’re free to NOT always explain it.
INTJ you are actually the best when you are not trying too hard!
I know this sounds simple INTJ, but stay single until you are ready to just be yourself!
When you stop playing games love becomes real.
ESTJ- Hold My Hand Sentinel
Most Sentinels are known to be the supportive personality pop in.
While ESTJ is helpful in so many ways, they are not the most affectionate.
Its cool if it is not your thing.
I also find it super weird when people can not stop smiling.
However a little PDA with your partner wont kill you.
Relationships are about compromise, you are not going to always date someone exactly like you.
ESTJ even if you think romance or poetry is silly, just humour us okay.
Nobody likes someone who laughs at their dreams.
