But just when you think you have them figured out, they start to distance.

See, your Aries is afraid to let you in for fear of losing interest.

Getting to know you has been a challenge, and an Aries loves a challenge.

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Now theyre simply afraid that in letting you in, the spark between the two of you will fade.

April 21 May 21

Your Taurus is peaceful, trustworthy, and stable.

This is because your Taurus, more than anything else,fearscommitment.

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Though they may be totally into you, underneath the calm exterior is a nervousness.

Letting you in means they could end up empty.

And theyre very hesitant to fall victim to heartbreak again.

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See, they love adventure, social stimulation, and energy.

And you, of course.

They want to shy slightly away from you, just so the interest is still there on both ends.

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June 22 July 22

Your Cancer wants to let you in, without a doubt.

See, this sign is deeply protective and nurturing.

Everything they do is with love, but sometimes this can lead them to being a bit too clingy.

Bottom line, they dont want to be too much, so theyre holding you at arms length.

With a Leo, its all about the big picture.

However, whats holding them back from truly letting you in is their own boldness.

See, they want to only show you the best side of them, so theyre keeping parts hidden.

August 23 September 22

Your Virgo is a deep-thinker, detail-oriented and strong, even in their silence.

Its not that they dont genuinely care for youthey totally do!

Theyre just distant from you because theyre letting their head make decisions before their heart.

September 23 October 22

Your Libra craves balance, order, and harmony.

See, theyre a tad indecisive when it comes to making decisions, and you are no exception.

Its not that they dont care for you, because they do, so deeply.

November 22 December 21

Your Sagittarius brings out the adventurer in you.

December 22 January 20

Your Capricorn, since day one, has taken your relationship seriously.

You knew they were guarded from the start, but this is different.

This isnt as much about them as it is about you.

The only reason for this is your Aquarius fear of becoming too dependent.

They want to show you how deeply they care, but dont want to totally lose themselves in you.

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Before they can truly open their heart to you, they need to be reassured that you care.

Marisa Donnelly is a poet and author of the book,Somewhere on a Highway, availablehere.