You don’t understand why the relationship ended.
You don’t understand why they treated you the way they treated you.
Maybe if you understood it would be easier to deal with the pain.
Nathan De Fortunato
Its hard to accept that this person is out of your life for good.
Its hard to accept that its time for you to move on and leave the past in the past.
They might come back.
They might return someday soon.
After all, you didnt leave things off right.
You didnt give any real goodbyes.
Thiscouldnthave been the end.
There could still be a chance for you two.
Even worse, there areso manyquestions that have been left unanswered.
You dont understand why the relationship ended.
You dont understand why they treated you the way they treated you.
Maybe if youunderstoodit would be easier to deal with the pain.
Without closure, its hard to move on, because youre not sure whether you did anything wrong.
Youre not sure whether you were getting played from the beginning.
You are at a loss.
You are completely and utterly confused.
And quite frankly, you feel silly.
Without closure, its hard to move on, because social media keeps you connected by a loose string.
Instead, you turn into a detective, trying to piece together different clues on your own.
And usually, that only makes your heartache worse.
That only makes you play out worst case scenarios about where it all went wrong.
After all, theres no guarantee they are going to give you the truth.
There is no guarantee they are going to clear up the questions that have been bothering you.
Even if theydoclear up some things, it might not make it any easier to say goodbye to them.
Without closure, its hard to move on, but sometimes its just as hard if youdoget closure.
