Without effort, your relationship is going to fall apart, so check that you’re playing your part.
And check that you aren’t settling for someone who refuses to do theirs.
They are going to start questioning whether you care about them as much astheycare aboutyou.
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They are going to feel neglected.
They are going to feel unappreciated.
If you dont put effort into your relationship, youre going to lose something great.
Youre going to let it slip out of your hands.
Youre going to stand by while it all falls apart.
Of course, the same rules apply for your person.
Without efforton both ends,your relationship isnt going to last.
You shouldnt be the only one giving and you shouldnt be the only one taking.
There should be a balance.
There should be a sense of equality.
There should be teamwork at play.
Relationships are a two-way street.
Youbothneed to exert yourselves.
Youbothneed to express how much you care.
One-sided relationships arent healthy relationships.
One-sided relationships are destined to self-destruct.
Before they stop making you happy and start making you stressed.
Or youre going to sayscrewthisand stop trying because you realize you shouldnt be the only one handling the work.
Either way, its not going to end well.
Your relationship is going to make you miserable.
You should never settle for someone who refuses to rise to your expectations.
Someone who is unable to match your efforts.
And you shouldnt get into a relationship ifyourethe person who isnt in the mood to put in any effort.
You shouldnt take advantage of their kindness and test how long they let you get away with it.
Without effort, your relationship is going to fall apart, so check that youre playing your part.
And confirm you arent settling for someone who refuses to do theirs.
