But this isnt what he presents to you.
When you hear this, it sounds like reassurance.
So you give him the time you think he needs.
Sophia Sinclair
You spend every Saturday night at his apartment.
You cook him scrambled eggs in the morning and learn about his life.
You meet his friends.
You confide in him.
You help him with his laundry.
You create inside jokes.
You fall for him.
But then its been three months and he has yet to call you his girlfriend.
Finally, when you cant stand the ambiguity anymore, you ask him what you two are.
I thought you knew what this was, he might say.
And then, two weeks later, he commits to someone else.
It hurts like hell.
But you gotta be gentle with yourself because theres nothing honest about a situationship.
Its misleading by design.
Indecision is a decision.
And if you know what you want and they dont, you know what you should probably do.
If he wont commit to you, commit to yourself.
If he wont choose you, choose yourself.
If he wont move forward with your relationship, move on without him.
Stop doing wifey shit for a man who wont even call you his girlfriend.
Its not worth it.
