You might not have used your words to tell her you were interested, but you silently said it.
You said it every time you reached out to grab her hand or kiss her cheek.
Every time you gave her a flirtatious compliment or turned the conversation sexual.

Pexels / Spencer Selover
You never looked her in the eyes and told her that you wanted to be her boyfriend.
You never said that you were going to give up the single life to commit to her.
Technically, you didnthaveto stay loyal to her.

Technically, you didnt break any promises.
You didnt lie out loud about your intentions.
Technically, you didnt do anything wrong.

Pexels / Spencer Selover
Thats why you havent texted her to ask her if shes doing okay without you.
Thats why you roll your eyes whenever she tries to make you feel bad about leaving her behind.
Thats why youre completely free of guilt.
You honestly believe that you didnt do anything wrong.
That if she feels like you led her on, thats her problem, not yours.
That its her fault for looking too far into things, for making assumptions based on your behavior.
But that way of thinking is total bullshit.
You might not have used your words to tell her you were interested, but you silently said it.
You said it every time you reached out to grab her hand or kiss her cheek.
Every time you gave her a flirtatious compliment or turned the conversation sexual.
Every time you texted her first thing in the morning or before she fell asleep at night.
Shes allowed to be pissed, disappointed, heartbroken even though she never dated you.
Even though you still swear you didnt do anything wrong.