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Updated 5 years ago,December 4, 2019
Youre allowed to love someone from afar.
You are allowed to love someone without speaking to them every single day or speaking to them at all.
You have to stop assuming the way things always were are the way they need to continue to be.
Naitian（Tony） Wang
Your history with someone doesnt tether you to them forever.
You are allowed to say goodbye at any point in time.
You are allowed to rebuild your social circle from scratch.
Stop forcing yourself to get along with someone.
Stop staying in an uncomfortable situation because youre worried about looking rude or being accused of overreacting.
You dont need to explain yourself to anyone.
You shouldnt allow someone who supposedly cares about you to doubt your dreams, your choices, your potential.
You are allowed to say, I care about you.
I want whats best for you.
And I am going to miss you.
But you no longer deserve a space in my heart or my mind.
Putting yourself first might seem harsh, but really, youre putting yourmental healthfirst.
Youre putting your own sanity first.
Youre putting your chance at happiness first.
You are allowed to push away the people who are making it harder for you to love yourself.
You are allowed to love them from afar.
