You are going to make mistakes when it comes to relationships.
You are going to screw up.
You are allowed to walk away from the wrong people and you are allowed to date the wrong people.

Morris Fayman
You are allowed to kiss boys on the lips even though you are never going to see them again.
You are allowed to jump from relationship to relationship when none of them feels right.
You are allowed to have casual, carefree sex.

You are allowed to be single for large gaps of time.
You are allowed to choose the single life over hookup culture.
You are allowed to make your own decisions about your own heart and your own body.
No matter what your intentions are, you are not going to get it right every time.
You are going to break hearts.
And you are going to have your own heart broken.
So does breaking hearts.
But you cannot spend too much of your time worrying about the past.
You never wanted to get hurt.
You never wanted to hurt anyone else either.
You have to accept it.
You have to move on from it.
You are not a bad person for breaking up with someone.
You are not unlovable for getting broken up with.
You are going to find love.
You are going to find your forever person.
And when that happens, you are going to make mistakes with them too.
You are going to screw up.
And they are going to screw up.
But you will be able to work through your problems.
You will be able to make your relationship last, regardless of your mistakes.