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Updated 4 years ago,May 23, 2021

You fell in love, and it was magical.

It was that way until it wasnt.

And then it hurt.

You Are Capable Of Loving Again

Daria Shevtsova

It was as if you were ripping off a band-aid, over and over and over again.

You fell in love with the wrong person.

And the wrongness haunts your dreams, and your waking hours, and every moment in between.

Perhaps you say a tiny prayer that the sleep will be an endless amount of pitch blackness.

You will have no dreams, you will have no memories that come floating back into your subconscious.

Youll just have peace.

Perhaps that will happen.

Perhaps it will not.

And then youll wake up in the morning, and wade through the hurt all over again.

You tell yourself its the best way to do things that you cannot fathom loving again.

So you hide, and hibernate, and avoid potential romantic situations at all costs.

You are not the only person on the planet who has fallen hard for a love that didnt last.

You are not the only person who fell in love with someone who was just simply wrong for them.

You are not the only person who has had a relationship that they think of as a mistake.

It can teach you how to be a better partner, too.

And make no mistake about it there is a love out there that is perfect for you.

You must hold onto these words, and tell yourself, I am capable of loving again.