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Updated 6 years ago,July 25, 2019

I know shes a good friend.

But you want to know what?

Should have been an even better girlfriend had you given her the chance.

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God & Man

Instead of giving her a chance you led her on.

Instead of giving her a chance you played games.

Instead of giving her a chance messed with her head and sent a million mixed signals.

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Instead of giving her a chance you made her think she had to work for your time and attention.

The truth is, she thought the world of you.

She would have done anything for you.

And continues to prove that by trying to be your friend.

But its honestly killing her.

Shes trying to be strong so she keeps answering you.

She keeps giving her best.

But the truth is shes so hurt.

She stays up at night tossing and turning replaying things in her mind wondering which singles she read wrong.

She overthinks everything blaming herself when in reality you didnt have the decency to tell her you werent interested.

Instead of telling her you werent interested, you reaped the benefits of her attention.

Instead of telling her you werent interested, you took everything she had to give without reciprocating it.

Instead of telling her you werent interested, you did everything to make her believe you were.

So dont blame her for pulling away.

Dont question her when she doesnt answer.

Because its killing her not to.

Dont pick a fight because you dont understand why shes hurt and upset.

Its only making it worse.

You werent honest with her.

You didnt tell her there was someone else.

Thats all you had to say.

But for some reason, you kept those details under lock and key.

So dont blame her for reacting the way she did.

Because as surprised as you might be at her reaction imagine how blindsided she felt.

You made her feel like a fool for not knowing something you didnt tell her.

Put yourself in your shoes.

You never told her to stop trying so she didnt.

You never told her to back off so she didnt.

You want to be her friend but you dont even know the meaning of friendship.

And shes pretending like this is okay.

Shes pretending things are fine.

Because with friends like that who needs enemies.