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Updated 7 months ago,October 4, 2024
It doesnt matter whether you do the right thing.
It doesnt matter whether you treat everyone around you with love and respect.
Your hard work isnt always going to be appreciated.
Analise Benevides
Every single decision you make is going to make some people excited and others upset.
Its impossible to yo everyone, which is why you should focus on pleasing the only person who matters.
Of course, that doesnt mean youre allowed to treat others cruelly.
You should always lead with love and kindness.
But when that kindness is thrown back in your face, dont feel too bad about the experience.
Dont assume their crappy behavior is your fault.
When someone searches for reasons to criticize you, it says more about them than it says about you.
And the right people will see that.
They wont listen to what this mean-spirited person has to say.
They will form their own decisions about you.
They will listen to common sense and reason, not water cooler gossip.
Remember, you’ve got the option to do everything right and still get hate.
That doesnt mean theres no point in trying.
It means that you should stay focused on doing what makesyouhappy, what bringsyouthe most joy.
It means your eyes should be on your own lane, not on anyone elses.
Some of them will have valid reasons.
Others will have bullshit ones.
But its not up to you to make everyone else happy.
Some people will never be happy with you.
Some people will search for reasons to pick fights.
Those people arent worth your time or your energy.
Their opinions mean nothing in the grand scheme of things.
Although words can hurt, you have to remember some words are meaningless.
Some words should be ignored.
Try your hardest to drown out the negative and soak in the positive.
