But you have to be self-aware.
You cannot allow yourself to be blinded by excitement, by the idea of making this person yours.
You have to keep your eyes open.
Jonathan Borba
You have to watch out for mixed signals and red flags.
You have to know when its time to stop obsessing over this person.
Its good to take initiative.
Its good to go after what you want.
But its not good to go overboard.
When youre pursuing someone, your effort doesnt go unnoticed.
Your situation doesnt seem one-sided.
Your favors are appreciated.
Your feelings are reciprocated.
Youre both on the same page.
You both want the same things.
But when youre full-on chasing someone, hardly any effort is shown on their end.
They never set plans to hang out with you in advance.
They never answer your texts right away unless they need something.
They never seem to care quite as much as you care.
When youre pursuing someone, its a fun challenge.
But when youre chasing after someone, it usually ends in heartache.
You question your worth.
You question their intentions.
You question your sanity.
Chasing someone is rarely fun.
It rarely ends the way you want.
Theres nothing wrong with taking initiative when it comes to your love life.
Youshouldbe true with your heart.
You should never pour your energy into someone who is unable to see your worth.
