Stop playing the fixer, the healer, the hero.
Stop playing the fixer,the healer, the hero.
Theyre not going to change unless they make the decision to change.
You cant force them to do anything.
Youre only going to exhaust yourself by setting ultimatums and begging them to treat you better.
Sometimes, walking away is your best option.
Stop blaming yourself for whattheyhave done.
This has absolutely nothing to do with you.
But that doesnt mean their behavior is excusable.
That doesnt mean you should continue to put up with their toxic ways.
You cannot change them, so stop putting yourself in the same situation over and over again.
Stop encouraging history to repeat itself.
You dont have to stick by them.
You dont have to act as their punching bag.
If you have reasons to leave, then leave.
Find somewhere where you arent miserable.
Even though it sucks, sometimes, you have to give up on the people you love.
Sometimes, you have to do the best thing for yourself.
Sometimes, the hardest thing to do is the healthiest thing to do.
You cannot change them, so stop wasting so much time on them.
Stop pouring all of your effort into them.
Stop neglecting yourself so that focus on them.
You dont have to make sacrifices to get to make them happy.
You dont have to stay in a toxic situation out of guilt or obligation.
You dont have to do this for any longer.
I know its a hard pill to swallow.
I know it makes you feel powerless.
I know it makes you want to cry.
But you cannot keep lying to yourself.
You cannot keep telling yourself theyre going to change once they realize how upset theyve been making you.
And that means you might have to get the hell away from them.
