There are real men out there, just waiting for you to enhance their lives.
So dont sell yourself short.
You deserve more love than those lost boys can give you.
Dziana Hasanbekava
He has no right to take his problems out on you.
His life might be a living nightmare.
He mightve dealt with some shit that you couldnt even imagine.
But thats no excuse to treat you poorly.
You should be his little slice of paradise, not his punching bag.
You shouldnt feel guilty about being happy.
Your boyfriend is supposed to be the first person you run to when you have good news.
Hes not a charity case.
Dont stay with him because you pity him or because you think he can change over time.
The only reason you should date him is because you genuinly care about him.
If the loves not there, then you shouldnt be, either.
You should be able to talk openly to him.
You shouldnt have to walk on eggshells when you speak to him to avoid setting him off.
It could get dangerous.
You deserve a real relationship.
It doesnt matter if we live in the century that revolves around casual hookups.
If you want a real relationship, then you shouldnt settle for a half-assed one.
FWBs and open relationships wont cut it.
Delete his name from your contacts and find a man who actually respects you enough to agree to monogamy.
Your boyfriend isnt your boss.
Youre in charge of your body.
That means you could wear whatever makeup and clothing you want to wear.
Hes not your father or your fashion stylist.
He doesnt have a right to tell you what you could and cannot do.
He needs to put himself first for now.
He cant save you and you cant save him.
Its not because hes unlovable or unattractive.
Its because he cant make you his main priority.
He needs to put himself first, for the sake of his sanity.
Of course, that doesnt mean you cant stay friends.
