It can be fun, until its not anymore.

To even give off the vibe of rushing is to set off metaphorical sirens or fire alarms.

To discuss anything involving labels is to prepare for another person to turn ghost.

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Brandon Woelfel

So we bite our tongues and entertain the dance of, are we, arent we?

It can be nerve-wracking to ask a person to their face, where is this going?

because you might not like the answer.

The truth is you deserve more than someone who only wants to waste your time.

When we dont make our intentions clear, we can blame no one but ourselves.

It doesnt matter how incredible he is.

It can be fun, and you know it.

It can make you feel like the chill girl- the one who is totally cool with a casual situation.

Its okay that what you want is a real relationship- you arent insane for wanting that.

You arent asking too much for wanting someone to be with you in a more permanent way.

What isnt okay is pretending like they want something they dont for keep you around.

You know youre better than that.