Ever since the moment your eyes locked, its as if a brand new life began.
You just didnt realize exactly what that meant.
How could they not?
Daria Shevtsova
You knew that chemistry wasnt the only thing it would take to make it work, though.
You knew that flirty banter and charming smiles could only move you so far.
You spent your days gushing to your friends about how incredible this person was.
You would fall asleep at night with them on your mind- or even by your side.
Yet now, something always seems to be slightly missing, doesnt it?
The way they seem to bare their soul one moment, then completely shut you out the next.
Listen, you should probably realize that you deserve more than someone who will never fully be yours.
I know it can be tempting to hold on to them.
When youre with them everything is perfect.
You think if you just hold out a little longer then theyll start to see it, too.
But you have to realize that this isnt the truth.
These snapshots of moments are merely that- moments.
They can make you feel incredible, and thats okay.
But they dont show any pop in of real commitment to you.
They only show part of a larger story.
Because yes, a person doesnt have to commit to you to have feelings for you.
They dont have to stop seeing other people so you can send you sweet texts at night.
Unless a person explicitly promises that they are committed to you, then they dont owe you anything.
Yet its also what makes the moments youre apart so devastating.
They may have good intentions, babe.
Not when your heart is screaming for a real, complete kind of love.
You deserve someone who truly wants to be with you, not just halfway.
You deserve someone who can see that your heart and who you are is worth putting a name to.
Someone who isnt afraid of the risk involved to make things happen with you.
You deserve someone who fully wants to be yours, not someone who only wants you in pieces.
Its okay to wish the person youre so crazy about would love you in this way.
Its not asking for too much.
Its not unreasonable to want that kind of commitment.
Not because you dont have feelings anymore.
Not because you suddenly stopped loving them.
You cant force a person to love you the way you want- they have to want it, too.
So dont waste your time holding onto a hope that they will come around.
You know deep down in your heart that they arent going to.
