I know that there is a part of you that is thinking about giving you past relationship another chance.
We know that everyone makes mistakes, including ourselves.
Some things can be easily forgiven.
Sarah Loven
Some require a little more communication and sincerity but can be worked through.
You sit with your head in your hands, because you know how much you care about this person.
Letting them go wasnt something done lightly.
You couldnt just pretend everything was fine when everything really wasnt.
Yet then, you ran into them by accident.
Or you caught a glimpse of something they posted online.
And for a moment, you think about letting them hit it one more time.
You remember all the wonderful times, the good memories.
The things that made you feel like nothing bad could ever happen to the two of you.
You justify that everyone makes mistakes and that maybe you shouldnt hold it against them so harshly.
That giving them another chance could be the start of something great for both of you again.
Yet in your gut, you know that its not really about that, is it?
Its not really about them at all.
Because sometimes relationships are the catalysts to teach you lessons, whether or not thats what you expected.
Sometimes they are meant to be only moments, not permanence.
Theyre meant to show you who you are and what you want out of life.
Even more so, youre moving forward.
Even when they couldnt be trusted anymore.
Its wonderful that they realized their mistake.
That they saw what they had done and now are trying to be a better person because of it.
Yet that doesnt mean you have to be the person they test this out on.
you should probably know its not your responsibility to let someone back in just because its what they want.
Keep those lessons in mind when you fall in love with another person.
So if theyve changed, thats great.
Let them show that to someone else.
You are just fine without them.
