You have to remember your anxiety isn’t going to chase the right person away.
It isn’t going to be a deal-breaker.
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Updated 4 years ago,July 4, 2021
Youre not unlovable.
Diana Spatariu
Youre not incapable of forming genuine human connections.
It doesnt mean you have to accept your loneliness as a constant part of your world.
it’s possible for you to end up in a serious stable relationship, just like anybody else.
You might rewrite texts ten times before hitting thatsendbutton, but thats okay.
You might turn down dates at loud, crowded public places, but thats okay.
You dont have to stay single just because you have anxiety.
You dont have to let your insecurities and overthinking get in the way of your love life.
you’ve got the option to find someone who is patient, calm, and understanding.
you’re able to handle the pressure.
Your anxiety shouldnt stop you from looking for love.
It shouldnt convince you to accept your single status.
If youre happy alone, theres nothing wrong with staying single.
you’re free to live a happy, fulfilled, successful life on your own.
Dont let yourself believe you arent smart enough, sexy enough, suave enough for a relationship.
you might figure out a flirting method that works for you.
It isnt going to be a deal-breaker.
Its just going to be a part of you they accept, just like every other part of you.
It doesnt matter that your cheeks get red when you talk to people.
It doesnt matter that you stutter over sentences.
It doesnt matter that you coop yourself away some nights because youre too sick to socialize.
you’ve got the option to still enter a serious, stable relationship.
it’s possible for you to still find your happily ever after.
