You need someone who will balance you out.
Someone who is able to calm you down when you’re angry.
Someone who is able to wipe the tears dry when you’re upset.
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Someone who is able to keep you steady when all you want to do is collapse.
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Updated 7 years ago,March 25, 2018
You need someone who will balance you out.
Someone who is able to calm you down when youre angry.
Someone who is able to wipe the tears dry when youre upset.
Someone who is able to keep you steady when all you want to do is collapse.
You need someone who will help you make tough decisions.
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Someone who will sit down and listen to you talk about the pros and cons of acceptingthisjob offer orthatone.
You need someone who will encourage you when you feel like giving up on life.
Someone who will lift you up when you fall on your ass.
Someone who will be there to remind you that youaregood enough, youarecapable of fulfilling your dreams.
You need someone who will include you in big and small moments.
Someone who will sayourinstead ofminewhenever they talk about the house or the car or the dogs.
Someone who will include your name on every birthday card they send and present they wrap.
Someone who will treat you like their own family, even if you arentmarriedyet.
You need someone who will back you up.
Someone who will take your side in arguments because you two are a team.
Someone who would die to protect you because they dont want to live without you.
You need someone who will be happy for all of your successes.
Someone who will congratulate you over milestones instead of being jealous that you reached them first.
Instead of turning every little thing into a competition.
Instead of acting like, if youre doing well, that must mean theyre doing poorly.
You need someone who lends a hand with the dishes and the lawn and the garbage.
They know that youre both doing the best that you’re free to.
You need someone whocompromiseswith you when you come to a disagreement.
Someone who doesnt have a go at one-up you during fights to see who can say the nastiest thing.
You need someone who sees you as an equal.
Someone who doesnt think of themselves asout of your league.
Someone who doesnt think of themselves as superior.
Someone who respects your body, your mind, and your opinions and always shows it.
You need someone who puts actual work into the relationship.
Someone who never makes you feel like your love, or youreffort, is one-sided.
Someone who loves you completely and never hesitates to show it.
