See, we dont really walk away from anything in our lives.
We simply outgrow them.
Its really rare that anything severs or breaks because of a lack of love.
Tony Ciampa
If there werent any love, we wouldnt have bonded or attached to it in the first place.
We dont walk away because we run out of love.
We walk away because we run out of growth.
We leave when staying is unsustainable.
The truth is that youre going to lose jobs and make enemies absolutely anywhere you live.
You cannot immunize yourself to life by placing yourself in perfect circumstances.
You cannot escape from reality through the perfect person or apartment or five-year plan.
The places you stay in arent always the ones you expect.
They arent always the ones that are the most inspiring, or the coolest, or the most perfect.
Theyre the ones in which you plant roots, and you blossom.
Do you understand the difference?
We walk away when theres nothing more to do, and theres nowhere more to take it.
Thats the purpose anything serves in your life: what and who it makes you out to be.
You ask yourself whether or not its going to help turn you into the person you want to be.
Look the spark is going to come and go no matter what.
Youre going to get used to your surroundings.
Youre going to get used to each other.
The newness is going to fade into normalcy, eventually.
You arent going to walk away from anything in your life because you decide you dont love it anymore.
This doesnt mean its wrong.
This doesnt mean its time to walk away.
Its wrong when its no longer serving us.
Its wrong when its not making us into the people that we want and need to be.
Its wrong when theres no more growth.
It is to become the people we are meant to be, once and for all.
