We often get paralyzed in the concept of is this right?
Is there anything better?
How do I know if I am?
@kxvn_lx
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Updated 4 years ago,June 29, 2021
Chances are often given to us without much warning.
Sometimes weve worked extremely hard to get to where we are.
The blood, sweat, and tears turn into the golden moment weve been reaching for.
We beam with pride, feeling as if we earned it.
Sometimes, the chances are unexpected.
Perhaps we were simply in the right place at the right time.
Maybe a door opened to something we never honestly thought would be available to us.
We recognize our luck.
We fear well screw things up.
That we arent truly cut out for the chance after all.
That perhaps we didnt try hard enough to get here.
It makes sense, doesnt it?
Or at least the path we want to be on right now?
We know the difference between getting a chance because of being underhanded, sneaky, or dishonest.
We know those moments arent truly meant for us or not in the ways we want them to be.
We know that in some cases, we are given chances based on unfair or downright unacceptable things.
If there is one thing we have learned about life, is that it isnt always fair.
People get away with things they shouldnt.
Disasters show up that no one anticipated.
Seemingly unbreakable bonds shatter without a moments notice.
When something like this happens, we know we dont have much of a choice in the outcomes.
Its possible that even if we try our hardest, things wont play out in our favor.
What if we did something similar when great things show up in our life?
Our only job is to do the best we can with it.
That all we can do is make the most of it.
Is it possible that we make mistakes along the way?
Could you find later that you want to go after something different?
You will make the mistake of letting something escape you because you were too terrified to do something.
Because who knows what could happen if you stop doubting yourself so much and lean into this?
Who knows where it could lead?
Perhaps it opens doors to something better later- maybe you discover your passion by merely taking a chance.
Or that you arent worthy?
Recognize that this is your moment, whether you planned for it or you didnt.
The only question is: what are you going to do with it?
