There is a difference between someone who values you and someone who simply enjoys benefits of your connection.
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Updated 8 years ago,August 19, 2017
Love is imperfect.
Men and women alike, are imperfect.
Patrick Zacharias
But sometimes, as women, we fall into unhealthy relationships.
This fire that, once ignited, never stops burning for the ones we care for.
This isnt to say that we women are perfectfar from it.
Not every relationship will be perfect.
Not every man will be a knight in shining armor, always doing and saying the right thing.
And thats more than okay.
Patrick Zacharias
But there is a difference between someone wholovesyou and someone who is merely with you for convenience.
There is a difference between someone whovaluesyou and someone who simply enjoys benefits of your connection.
And its about time you recognized the difference.
Its about time you saw your unhealthy relationship for what it isa compromise to your character.
Because the right one wont just up and leave.
Especially when they are the one in the wrong.
If and when you are in this situation, look to yourself first.
ensure youre loving and caring and being the woman you want to be.
But then, when you find yourself in a situation thats abusive or unhealthy,stop shouldering the blame.
But dont place all the weight upon your shoulders.
So like stop thinking that you must convince him to stay, especially after hes broken you.
You do not need to chase a love that has no desire to stay.
You do not need to run after someone who doesnt even care enough to mend whats been broken.
You do not need tolovesomeone who is too self-centered to really love you.
Because you deserve infinitely more than that.
You dont have to convince him to be with you.
You dont have to beg for his affection.
You dont have to compete for his attention.
You dont have to wonder what you could have done differently to keep his eyes focused on you.
You dont have to spend your energy trying to show him your worth.
Because someone who truly loves you will know your worth without having to be told.
