The truth is that there is nothing you could have done to keep your former relationship.
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Updated 4 years ago,August 8, 2021
You will get over him eventually.
When your relationship ended, you questioned everything.
Kevin Laminto
You picked apart old conversations.
You mulled over your past decisions.
You wondered if there was anything that you could have done differently.
You blamed yourself for not being good enough.
Sometimes, obstacles become unconquerable and love doesnt triumph all.
By knowing that you have done all you might, there is no regret and unresolved closure.
Love isnt supposed to be this hard and it has been affecting you for the longest time.
By choosing to focus on yourself, youre finally allowing yourself to chase after your own happiness.
When your relationship ended, the first step is to accept what happened.
Acknowledge that there were good and bad times, but now the bad has outweighed the good.
Think back to the countless times you tried to make it work only to have your effort backfired.
Remind yourself while it hurt so much now, youre doing the right thing by choosing yourself.
Mourn over the relationship and slowly allow yourself to move on.
When your relationship ended, trust that the next one will be better.
Youre not difficult to love, you have not met the right one yet.
They will treat you the way you deserve without you having to ask for it.
The relationship will be just as how you envisioned and wished for.
When your relationship ended, you learn that youre strong enough to get through this.
Despite how broken-hearted youre feeling now, better days are ahead of you.
Youre young and your journey is only at the beginning.
You learn that youre fully capable of navigating life by yourself.
You learn that its better to be single than to settle into a mediocre relationship.
Its better to be single than to be with someone for the wrong reasons.
You know that you will be okay eventually.
So hey dont give up now.
Its okay to grieve and take your time to heal.
Its okay to be selfish and allow yourself to heal.
Its okay if youre not over him now because you eventually will.
