You will never be enough for the person who doesnt love you.
Your warmth will never thaw the heart which does not beat for you.
Your warmth will never thaw the heart which does not beat for you.
Blake Connally
Your eyes will never see a glimpse into the soul that is searching for someone else.
You may be hearing everything you want to hear, but you will not feel it in your bones.
You will always be the one who holds the hug the longest.
Blake Connally
Their kisses will linger on your lips while yours will be quickly forgotten.
You could write a million love letters, but they will never understand the depth of your words.
You could explain your feelings in a million different ways, but they will never quite believe you.
Then you will start making excuses.
At first you wont even realize you are doing it.
The excuses will make you feel better temporarily.
Youll tell yourself that they are just too busy.
They have more important priorities, so you should be thankful you are at least one of them.
Its okay if theres no trace of you in their life, they are just a really private person.
Then you will start blaming yourself.
You will work harder to prove yourself and your love.
You will be the one to apologize first, even if you didnt think you were wrong.
You will go out of your way to like them to make it keep the peace.
You will stop mentioning things that bother you.
You will stop asking them to meet your needs and instead focus solely on meeting theirs.
Then you will be shocked when its still not enough.
They wont suddenly wake up one day in awe of your existence.
They wont profess their love and commitment to you.
In fact, one day, they wont do anything for you at all.
And they never will again.
They will leave you without even a goodbye or a single word.
Their silence is intentional.
It is to remind you that you werent enough for them and you never will be.
You werent even worth an explanation of their abandonment.
Do not blame them for not loving you.
Maybe they thought they loved you, but maybe it wasnt enough.
Love is not something you have to analyze.
You will know when someone loves you.
They dont leave when times get tough or feelings get hurt.
They lean into you.
They work at the relationship.
They know losing each other is an unacceptable outcome so they fight to make things right.
Do not blame yourself for the heartbreak youre feeling.
Remind yourself of all of the wonderful people you have in your life who have supported you through everything.
Focus on all the love you have to give that will one day be appreciated.
Regretting a relationship is a waste of time and will keep you trapped in the past.
You did your best and thats all you couldve done.
They ride the waves of life together.
One day you will meet the person that will choose to stay.
