You are going to survive this heartache, this obstacle, this pain.
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Updated 4 years ago,February 21, 2021
Youre going to survive losing them.
Its not going to be easy.
Marco Testi
There are going to be plenty of tear-filled nights ahead of you.
Your doubts will drive you insane.
However, you have to remember what it felt like when youwerewith them.
You cannot recall the good memories without bringing up the bad.
Remember how lonely you felt within their company.
Remember how many arguments kept you awake.
Remember how many times you questioned whether you should leave before you actually took action.
Most importantly, remember that there are so many beautiful things awaiting you in the future.
Your best days arent behind you.
You still have so much to experience.
You still have a whole universe to explore.
You are going to survive your weakest moments.
You are going to come out stronger than before.
Remember, its okay to cry in front of mirrors.
Its okay to scream into your pillowcases.
Its okay to vent to your best friends.
Its okay to scribble your thoughts into a journal.
You dont have to act like youre fine when youre crumbling.
You dont have to play pretend because youre going through a lot right now.
Change is never easy.
Even the worst relationships are difficult to leave, so walking away from a good one can seem unbearable.
It can feel like youre never going to bounce back, like youre going to be this miserable forever.
You have to remember its only natural for you to feel sad about your circumstances.
You lost someone important to you.
You are going to live a completely different life without them.
You are going to grow into a completely different person.
You are a fighter.
You are going to survive this heartache, this obstacle, this pain.
Right now, you might feel like your world is ending, but a new chapter is beginning.
The world has so much in store for you.
Now that youre free, you get to make your own decisions.
You get to carve your own path.
You get to figure out what you want from your future.
Its completely up to you.
