Just because you’re afraid of reaching the next milestone doesn’t mean you’re with the wrong person.
Youll stop feeling the need to raise your guard and run away during the tiniest arguments.
Youll stop believing youre better off alone than in a relationship with someone who truly loves and values you.
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Youll stop trying to self-sabotage.
Even when youre with the right person, you could have doubts.
You have to give up the idea that your fright automatically means youre in the wrong relationship.
Just because youre afraid of reaching the next milestone doesnt mean youre with the wrong person.
If youve been scared of commitment all your life, your mindset isnt going to magically change.
Your past experiences arent magically going to disappear.
Youre still going to have some of the same fears.
Youre still going to be timid about the idea of spending forever with one person.
Youreallowedto wonder whether youre making the right decision.
Youreallowedto think about all the ways the relationship might go wrong.
Wondering whether youre ready to commit to someone doesnt make you a bad girlfriend.
And that doesnt mean your partner is a bad boyfriend.
It simply means youre human.
These types of thoughts are okay.
Your fear of commitment isnt going to go away overnight.
Youre going to slowly ease into your commitment at a pace that makes you feel safe.
Its dangerous to assume a person isnt right for you unless youre a million percent positive theyre your soulmate.
