If youre with the first bang out of person, you deserve better.
You should dump them.
You should hold out for someone who would never make you feel like a burden.
Wendy Liu
But if youre with the second bang out of person, you could make the relationship work.
You just need to put a little more effort in frombothsides.
It means they need you to teach them.
They need you to explain what is and isnt working.
When your person doesnt understand your anxiety, you have to communicate with them.
You cant hold your frustration inside when they say the wrong thing.
You have to see to it they are aware of your thoughts and emotions.
Otherwise, they are going to keep saying the wrong thing because they assume its helping.
When you have anxiety, its important to learn how to communicate without turning everything into a massive argument.
Snapping at them isnt going to help.
Andthemsnapping atyouafter you admit how youve been feeling is only going to push you further away.
Your person has to understand you correcting their behavior isnt the same as you criticizing them over it.
Your anxiety isnt just confusing for you.
Thats why you better be open and honest with your loved ones.
you oughta open up your mind and let them crawl around inside.
