She doesn’t want you to act like her problems aren’t real problems.
She doesn’t want you to make her feel stupid.
You dont have to pay attention to her every second of the day.
J E S U S R O C H A
You dont have to answer her texts within minutes and shower her with compliments whenever you see her.
You dont have to do much, aside from treat her right.
Your girlfriend wants you to act fullypresentwhen shes in the room.
Especially when she only gets to see you for a few hours each week.
Your girlfriend wants your support.
She wants your encouragement.
She wants your praise.
Your girlfriend wants reassurance youre interested in her mind as much as her body.
She wants to know that you arent with her for the wrong reasons.
Your girlfriend wants you to treat her feelings like theyre valid.
She doesnt want you to act like her problems arent real problems.
She doesnt want you to make her feel stupid.
When something is bothering her, it should bother you.
Your girlfriend wants you to pay attention when shes speaking to you.
She doesnt want to repeat herself three times.
She doesnt want you to interrupt her stories with your own.
She doesnt want you to lose focus on what shes saying halfway through the conversation.
She wants you to be engaged.
And she wants you to contribute to the conversation instead of simply mhming along to whatever she is saying.
Your girlfriend wants you to respect her.
She doesnt want you to talk badly about her behind her back or online where the world can see.
She doesnt want you to act like a dick.
Your girlfriend wants you to show interest in the things that matter the most to her.
She doesnt need you to learn everything there is to know about her hobbies.
She doesnt even need you tolikeher hobbies.
But if something matters to her, it should matter to you.
At least a little.
Your girlfriend deserves to feel appreciated.
She deserves to feel loved.
She deserves to know how much you care.
