you gotta deal with your issues, not run from them.
you better actively work toward bettering yourself because your problems wont be solved on their own.
You cant pretend yesterday never existed.
Aleksander Borzenets
Your toxic past doesnt define you, but it is a part of your history.
It helped shape you into who you are today.
Maybe it made you stronger and more self-sufficient and more comfortable being alone.
Or maybe it didnt do anything positive for you.
Maybe it made you more vulnerable and insecure and suspicious of intentions.
it’s possible for you to always start over.
Theres nothing wrong with you.
You arent a lost cause.
Your toxic past is never going to go away and this isnt something that should scare you.
Its something that should bring you comfort.
You havent actually lost all of the progress youve been making.
You havent actually done anything wrong.
Your fear is normal.
Your fear is okay.
Your toxic past is never going to go away.
Of course, you dont have to tell anyone what you went through if it makes you uncomfortable.
You dont have to share your experiences with anyone aside from your therapist.
But sometimes, it might help to open up to your loved ones.
They might be able to understand your reactions better if you explain the reason behind them.
It might be something you want them to know.
You shouldnt let your past hold you back.
You should keep looking ahead, keep taking steps forward, keep going, keep going, keep going.
