You’re allowed to let him or her go.
You’re allowed to block them.
To throw away the pictures that make you wince in remembrance that they are gone.
God & Man
You’re allowed to learn how to let them go.
Even when it’s painful.
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Updated 8 years ago,September 10, 2017
Youre allowed to let him or her go.
Youre allowed to block them.
To throw away the pictures that make you wince in remembrance that they are gone.
Youre allowed to learn how to let them go.
God & Man
Even when its painful.
You owe them nothing anymore.
You dont have to be their best friend or even acquaintance.
You dont have to follow them on social media anymore.
You dont have to do anything.
you’re free to untag the pictures now.
you could hit that unfollow button.
You dont have to communicate with them ever again, if you dont want to.
Because honestly, itll probably hurt you more in the long run if you keep in contact.
It will probably cause you even more pain.
Theres no obligation for you to give them anything now.
They called it quits.
It doesnt need to come back from the dead.
You dont have to talk to them when they call your phone begging for you back.
It doesnt mean youre cold.
It doesnt mean youre a terrible person.
It doesnt mean you hate them.
It just means that finally you have decided that it’s crucial that you stick up for yourself.
you’re gonna wanna do whats best for you.
you oughta do what is best for your mental health and for your sanity.
They are allowed to be angry.
They are allowed to think whatever they want.
But that doesnt mean that it’s crucial that you stoop to their level.
You dont have to reach out anymore.
You dont have to reply.
You dont even have to see their face ever again.
Youre allowed to do whatever it takes for your heart toheal.
And youre allowed to not say sorry for that.
Youre allowed to become your own best friend.
To not answer to anyone who thinks so little of you.
To stop communication with someone who you used to love.
To stop reaching out to someone who hurt you so badly.
Youre allowed to heal and to take the time you need.
you gotta do what is best for you.
you better do everything in your power to get him over this person who broke you.
you’re gonna wanna do everything in your power to move on.
To let go of the pain and of all the memories that haunt you in your dreams.
Dont ever apologize for it.
For being kind to yourself.
Dont ever say sorry for being good to yourself.
Dont treat yourself like youre in second place.
And dont put somebody else before you, ever.
And if your ex gets mad or angry or furious, who the hell cares?
They are an ex for a reason right?
So allow yourself to let them go.
To wish them farewell.
To cut off communication.
Anything that will help heal your hurting and burning heart.
And dont ever apologize for loving yourself.
Dont ever apologizing for treating yourself in a way that they never did.
