You are free to grow apart from people.
You are free to lose feelings for people.
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Updated 7 years ago,May 24, 2018
Youre allowed to move on.
Thats right, you heard me.
Remind yourself of that, every day.
Remind yourself that its okay to leave someone behind who is no longer complimenting your life.
Matheus Ferrero
Moving on goes for both platonic and romantic relationships.
If they are no longer being the kind of friend you need, allow yourself to let them go.
You dont deserve them.
Youre allowed to move on from the boyfriend or girlfriend that doesnt treat you in the way you deserve.
The lover that tries to invalidate your feelings.
The lover that makes you upset, but will never take responsibility for being the cause of your emotions.
Your feelings are valid.
You are worth more than that.
Youre allowed to walk away from people who dont fit your life anymore.
Maybe its growing up.
Maybe its just time.
No matter what the situation or what your reason is, youre allowed to walk away.
Youre allowed to move on.
Forgive yourself for that.
Forgive yourself for not keeping those people around.
They ran their course in your life, but thats over now and thats okay.
Forgive yourself for the times you never gave a reason.
Forgive yourself for the times you didnt know the reason.
Forgive yourself for the moments you regret.
The moments where you wish you stayed, or the moments you miss them.
You moved on for a reason, remember that.
You dont owe anyone anything, especially not a place in your life.
This is your life.
Youre the one in control.
Move on from whoever and whatever you want.
Move on from that job that drains you mentally.
Move on from that hair cut youve been saying youll change for years.
Move on from that program that you hate but your parents wanted.
Move on from all the half-assed lovers and no-good friendships.
Its okay to move on.
So, move on.
