He doesnt focus his attention on you when youre together.
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Updated 5 years ago,November 3, 2019
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He tries to convince you of something you know isnt true.
Drew Wilson
His words dont match his actions.
He brushes you off whenever you think you caught him in the act.
Dont let his words be louder than your intuition.
Most of the time, youre probably right and hes just trying to manipulate you into thinking otherwise.
He uses your actions as an excuse to act out himself.
He tells you how much he likes you, but doesnt fully commit.
This one is pretty obvious.
This is what causes you to latch on in hopes that the one day will come.
He wants you to stay hooked, to get to feel needed by you.
This in itself will drive you crazy, because youll keep hoping for something that never comes.
Youll feel like youre pressuring him, because hes already used every excuse in the book.
You shouldnt have to convince someone to be with you.
They should commit willingly and full-heartedly.
He doesnt respond to your texts, but is active on social media.
Its not that hard for someone to respond saying that they are busy.
Truth is, he doesnt want to or else he would.
He wont discuss problems within the relationship.
Its not a big deal.
Dont worry about it.
This is what causes all the issues to build up in your own mind, making you feel crazy.
Youre not crazy, hes just unable to handle a mature, open relationship.
He only hangs out with you or talks to you on his own time.
You are his, but he is not yours.
You should always be there for him, but when you need himhe is nowhere to be found.
But, this in itself is giving him control.
He makes grand promises, but he doesnt follow through with them.
He doesnt focus his attention on you when youre together.
Hes on his phone or wanting to work on something else.
He feels distant when youre sitting right in front of him.
We all know relationships take two people and effort.
Youre only going to feel alone, despite having a body right next to you.
Its not okay for someone to make you feel this way.
He wont let you leave.
He will fight until he knows he has you once again.
Let him go and dont let him convince you to come back.
